Why do I use the word “magic”? Sometimes it just seems like that! It takes so little. I’ve had many experiences with people who have come to me for these types of disorders. Initially, what I communicate is that I cannot guarantee success even if I must admit that for now (May 2020) it has been 100%.
While I am writing these lines, many situations come to mind: I would like to write all of them
but this is impossible.
The little girl who was afraid of her dog and her mum was desperate: they lived in a small flat with 4 children and the dog, you can imagine…Maria, a saleswoman who wanted to increase her earnings but every time she had to present her products to a meeting she was blocked by anxiety, the lady who could not sleep at night, all night, the little girl who for 10 days did not eat and no longer slept following a shock, the manager with strong concentration difficulties, the fear of flying and the desire to travel of a gentleman, the tennis player who always lost when he was winning in the second set…
After establishing a relationship with the coachee, I check if there is motivation to change this behavior or eliminate this discomfort. At that point I am guided by my intuition and my heart and with visualizations, NLP, and techniques that I learned from native american, I propose simple exercises, and, MAGIC , the change arrives!. Once I met a lady at the end of a conference, and there, standing up in a waiting line, she told me that she had lost her parents within two months and that she couldn’t sleep at night because she always saw her mother dead. I told her, if you want, let’s try something. I’ve never proposed it like this, standing there, while we were waiting for our turn to try a new body experience. In 5 minutes, I don’t think more, we replaced that image with a more positive one and it worked! Sometimes it just feels like magic.
Obviously before proposing these techniques I evaluate if the conditions are there and if the person who consults me does not really need medical support. In fact, I collaborate with psychotherapists, psychiatrists.